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I've worked in some pretty challenging schools with some really vocal
children in the past. I had to radically adjust my expectations of them
in order to approach the situation differently. For example, for as
long as I kept giving myself the justification of "there's no point they
don't listen anyway" I wasn't being creative about how to overcome the
problem. Then in the school holidays I helped out on a kids camp
where the children were extremely excited and noisy. The chap running it
managed to get them in the palm of his hand. He did this over the
course of a few days and there were a few key things that I've now
developed from what I saw him doing. 1) He set ground rules and
let them shout them out and talk all over each other until someone said
"We should put up our hands when we want to talk." After that, each time
they tried to speak with out putting up their hand he reminded them
that the rules were theirs. 2) He was more persistent at
reinforcing the rules than they were at breaking them. It was exhausting
but it was eventually worth it. 3) He had a better attitude
towards the children he was working with than I had with my class back
at school. He really chatted to them and listened where I always felt I
didn't have time to do that. Sometimes you have to make time for things
like this to see a difference. I like the setting rules together
idea and we refresh ours every term now to keep it in mind. I won't let
myself blame my class for their habits again if I can be creative in
finding a way to overcome them. Of course we still have bad days but Iknow I can do something to correct them now.
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