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Said I'd come back - better late than never lol.
Loads of good advice from others here and having re-read your original post I agree that it is time for you to ask for involvement from someone either from SLT or HOY as you seem to have been following the procedures laid down by your school.
Ask if someone could come in, say when you have them before break or lunch and be there when they tidy up the room and to make sure that the worst ones (all of them?) spend some time in lunch/break dt with you (and them if they can stay).
I assume you do have a seating plan but if your class is anything like my Year 9 horrors they usually sneak into other seats and me being so observant (not) sometimes I don't notice and then there's a battle. Perhaps your seating plan needs tweaking - get someone senior in whilst you do that - I know it's not "the answer" but it's another way of taking ownership of the space and showing them who is in charge.
Another thing I do (apologies because I've written this before on these forums) is gather "evidence". I have a notebook and pen on my desk - or anywhere where they can't get it. I write the date, the class (in fact one of my classes has a little notebook to itself lol) and what lesson it is at the top. Then when someone does something, I write their name down and I have a series of codes for common misdemeanours - eg
toot = talking out of turn
oop = out of place
twit = talking whilst I'm talking (I like writing this one lol)
tar = talking across room
bot = banging on table
so = shouting out
and you will think of more of your own. If they do the same thing again I tick it so you can see how many times they do it.
Then when you have to tell parents or Heads of Year, you can list exactly what sort of behaviours you are objecting to and how often they occurred - it honestly doesn't take long to do once you get into the swing of it.
If they swear or use inappropriate language I make a great production of writing it down and even checking with other (probably better behaved pupils) that I have got it exactly right - they usually correct me gleefully. At some point the swearer realises and wants to know why I am writing it down and I just answer in vague terms about evidence, Head of Year (or whatever), headteacher. governors etc. OK you won't get all of them, but you might get 7 or 8 and concentrate your attention on them - I usually act on the ones where I have a lot written down rather than on ones who have done one thing and then stopped. It is a very powerful thing to be able to say to parents, HOY etc exactly what Dylan was doing on a certain date, how many times, the fact that he also called John a *** and sang "I'm so sexy".
Having said that, I do think that it was time that some of these kids were taken out of your class - you should be getting more support than this, especially as their usual teacher is having similar problems.
Looking at it from the other side, I have often found that some sweets do sweeten them up a bit - I know lots of people disapprove and you might too, but I use them sometimes - "Who can say 6 of these in French - and then hopefully someone nice will do it the first time and you just give them a sweet" "Why has Stephanie got a sweet, that's not fair I want one?" "Well can YOU tell me 6 of these, or finish this worksheet or wordsearch, or write all the English meanings for the words" - you get the idea.
Another thing I do - which I know you probably do as well - is play bingo. You may just want to do it with pens and paper at first - but give sweets as prizes. I have fixed it so that they can't cheat - PM me if you are interested - and you need a numbered grid of 20 pictures connected with the topic you are doing and they have a grid of 9 numbers (3 rows of 3) - we have one line, two lines and full house - three prizes per game (a prize is just a sweet) - but check out for diabetic children and have stickers or something for them lol.
There is no one answer to this - but trying different things will show you what works best for you and them. Hope it goes better - don't worry.
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