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    Posted by: katy_lou_99 05/02/2012 at 21:47
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    Hi,

    I'm after some advice regarding weaning. My DD is 6 months on the 10th February and for a couple of weeks have been giving her tastes of food (broccoli, sweet potato, carrot and parnsip), but she seems to spit nearly all of it out, is this what happens in the first few weeks of weaning? She is still having all of her milk feeds. Also how long do you keep doing the tasting for? I saw the health visitor at clinic on Friday and she said that she should be on 3 meals a day in 10 days time but that seems far too soon as she is still not taking much of the food. I want to take it gradually and not rush her.

    Any advice / experiences gratefully received!!

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    Posted by: bunique 05/02/2012 at 21:51
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    It sounds like she might not have lost her tongue thrust reflex yet. It was a loooooong time before our daughter was on three meals a day! We did baby-led weaning with her and just began offering something at evening meal, then breakfast, then lunch. You're right to not want to rush her :) How does she react if you just hand her the spoon?
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    Posted by: katy_lou_99 05/02/2012 at 21:58
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    She puts it to her mouth and then proceeds to throw it on the floor!

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    Posted by: bunique 05/02/2012 at 22:03
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    Big Smile  That sounds perfectly normal to me! I am very surprised at the advice from your HV given the recommendations are that babies don't even begin weaning until 6 months - so to expect them to start straight off on three meals a day seems a bit ridiculous!

    What's your gut telling you to do? Smile

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    Posted by: katy_lou_99 05/02/2012 at 22:08
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    It's telling me not to rush her. Thanks for the advice, just good to hear other people's experiences Smile

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    Posted by: bunique 05/02/2012 at 22:11
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    Absolutely, that's why we're all here! :D Incidentally, I'm sure I've read it can take up to 10 tastes before a baby is convinced by a new food. So there might be a lot more spoon throwing in your future, I'm afraid ;) Weaning is good fun though, once you get started! 

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    Posted by: jodidi 05/02/2012 at 22:31
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     My hv kept telling me that my lo needed to be on 3 meals a day by 6 months too. I chose not to discuss weaning with her. We started BLW at 5 months 3 weeks and by 6 months she was eating a very small amount of food but having a fantastictime playing with food. Anything I was eating she was offered some too (within reason) I have always just gone with my instincts and taken the hv advice with a pinch of salt. 

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    Posted by: missimpatient 06/02/2012 at 11:50
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    We are in the same position as you Katy Lou.  My DS will be six months on the 9th Feb and for the past couple of weeks we have been giving him tastes of food too.  Like your daughter, he ends up with quite a bit on his chin!  And he is also taking all of his milk as normal.  Although because I breast feed I don't know if he is cutting down on the amount at all.

     There is no way I think he is ready to go to three meals a day and was not planning on getting to that stage for another month (ish).  I thought it's best to see how it goes and be led more by him.  I am quite shocked your HV made that comment.

    I think you are totally right to not rush.  I am seeing the HV tomorrow and will let you know what she says. 

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    Posted by: swallowtail 06/02/2012 at 12:56
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     I highly recommend the Baby-Led Weaning book by Gill Rapley. It's very reassurring. Basically, babies don't need food for nutrition until they're one - until then, nutrition comes from milk and food is for tasting and having fun exploring with. They might eat it, might not, but that doesn't matter at this stage. My LO loved trying food, but didn't start eating big amounts until he was about 11 months and even then I would say he was 14 months before he would eat more than a couple of mouthfuls at a time. So definitely don't worry! Incidentially my HV was brilliant - she said don't spoon feed, don't worry at all about amounts, just offer him food and let him do what he wants without worrying about how much ends up in his belly. That's what I did and he loves all kinds of food now.

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    Posted by: Paradoxicalgirly 06/02/2012 at 15:02
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    We're told that they should be on 3 meals a day by 8 or 9 months. I started weaning at 5 months, I did the traditional way as I think BLW's a bit of a fad (and I've heard some bad things about it) and I just wanted baby to eat the same as me. She started off on just tastes and at 6 months had finger food and wouldn't eat unless she could have a go at feeding herself with the spoon - she's much the same now. I have a pot of spoons on the table every mealtime for her!

    She will eat anything except eggs! Loves trying new stuff!

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